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Facebook and Texting now acceptable on Mother’s Day

According to Wirefly who has been doing some research on Mother’s Day communication plans, it appears one of our most revered institutions, Motherhood, have adapted to modern technology and prefer texting or Facebook messages over getting a phone call if their little brats did not have enough time to visit them in person. It’s pretty understandable how this trend continues to grow as more and more people flock to Facebook to keep up with their loved ones. Myself, I live 900 miles away from my Mom and even though I intend to leave here a Facebook message which she will have forever in the archives of her Facebook account, you can bet the farm that “Dougie” will be calling home as well if I know what’s good for me! Of course all that combined with a GC to her favorite eating establishment that all but ensures my Father will have to join her, might explain why she likes the phone calls so much better. In any case, there are some pretty interesting facts in the release from Wirefly and it’s a pretty good read. Check it out below:

Reston, VA – May 7, 2012 -  Wirefly (, the Internet’s leading authorized retailer of cell phones, smartphones and wireless plans, today released surprising results of its behavioral survey on Mother’s Day communication plans.  As voice calls slowly lose ground as the most commonly used form of communication, with more Americans favoring texting and Facebook to stay in touch with friends and families, this survey illustrates the growing acceptance of these nontraditional – and some may say less personal – forms of communication to wish moms across the America a Happy Mother’s Day.

Key highlights of the survey:

  • Most mothers find the use of mobile text messages and Facebook on Mother’s Day acceptable;
  • Sons are less accepting of the practice than daughters;
  • A majority of Americans think it is OK to send mom a text or Facebook message on Mother’s Day

Wirefly surveyed Americans, ages 18 and older, to ask them how they planned to contact the mothers in their lives to wish them a Happy Mother’s Day. Wirefly solicited their opinions on whether they thought it was appropriate to use various nonverbal methods of communication, such as mobile text messaging, Facebook, and Twitter to tell mom “I love you”.  The surprising results revealed that while traditional methods (in person, phone call) are still preferred (though not by much), more and more American’s are embracing the use of technology as an acceptable means to communicate to their loved ones on Mother’s Day. 

My, My How Times Have Changed:
Historically, Mother’s Day is best known as the busiest day of the year for phone calls, with an estimated 112.5 million sons and daughters dialing up their moms across the U.S. in 2011. Wirefly’s survey results indicate that next to an in-person visit (58 percent), phoning home is still the most common way Americans plan to contact mom (53 percent).  However, it may soon become a thing of the past, with slightly more than half (53 percent) of those polled stating that it is acceptable to send either a text or Facebook message to tell their mothers that they care.

The Generational Divide:
Not surprisingly, results vary significantly by age, indicating that there are major generational differences in communication preferences.  Younger adults are much more likely to send their mom an electronic message on Mother’s Day. A whopping 70 percent of survey respondents between the ages of 18 – 24 years find it acceptable to text mom, while 60 percent think it’s OK to send her a message on Facebook.  With age comes less acceptance of using technology to communicate with mom on her important day.  Amongst respondents age 24 – 35, only slightly more than half find it acceptable to text (56 percent) and use Facebook (53 percent) and slightly less than half of 35 – 49 year olds are OK with sending a text (48 percent) or using Facebook (49 percent). The traditionalist and baby-boomers (50 years and older) are the least likely to replace talking with technology, with the majority finding it inappropriate to use text or Facebook, 64 percent and 65 percent, respectively, on Mother’s Day.

To Tweet or Not to Tweet:
Attitudes regarding Twitter suggest that it is still in the early stages of adoption with only 25 percent of respondents thinking it’s OK to tweet mom their well-wishes.  However, just because some are accepting of Twitter doesn’t mean they are going to use it, with less than one percent stating they actually plan to give mom a shout-out using 140 characters or less this year. 

Mama’s Boys:
Interestingly, gender played a significant role in determining communication preferences, but not as one might predict.  On average, sons are less accepting of nontraditional means to communicate with mom than are daughters:

  • Text:  Half of the women in the survey find it acceptable to send a text message to wish the moms in their life a Happy Mother’s Day, while only 41 percent of men find it acceptable;
  • Facebook: 51 percent of women also find it acceptable to use Facebook to wish their moms a Happy Mother’s Day, while only 39 percent of men find it acceptable;
  • Twitter: A third of women find it acceptable to ‘tweet’ mom a Happy Mother’s Day, while a mere 20 percent of men find it acceptable.

Mother Knows Best. Or Does She?
Perhaps most surprising, the majority of mothers (60 percent) surveyed thought it was OK to send/receive a text or Facebook message on Mother’s Day. Could it be that mothers are now the early adopters of social technology or do the results support the notion that it is a mother’s nature to be forgiving when they receive an “i luv u” instead of actually being told, “I love you” by their children?  Commenting on this shocking statistic, Dave Rook, Wirefly’s chief marketing officer stated, “It’s definitely a generational thing.  Moms of younger kids today are often times as tech-savvy as their children.  That doesn’t mean they wouldn’t appreciate hearing their children’s voices, but this survey seems to suggest that they fully embrace these new forms of communication versus simply tolerating them.”  Only a mother knows for sure.

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